Let us see the decade changes as psychological cycles in the mirror of real events (which are inherited through hormonal impact of contemporary melodies, which can be carried by the weekly changes of Torah-reding melodies – and so we do find weekly or monthly differing hormonal constellations which can be explaining the „horoscope effect” projected upon the stellar archetypal structures.
The 50 year long bank cycles /named by Schumpeter after Kondratyev) are changes in the amount of the sums of money which do have psychological impacts). The Biblical yovel (jubilee) years start at the end of the tenth years /17-18/ and tat he end of the Sixties (67-68).
They can be divided /traditionally, using Kabbalist names) four decades lasting 10-11-02 years.
In the Kabbalah (where the Higher power impacts us through Spheres of Feelings by generations of empathy evolution ) the First Decade is the Twenties (17-28 and 67-78 called the Brother /Son/ Years : the Twenties and Sevenies of Innovations and Recovery (Source: Lloyd DeMause, psychohistory.com)
It is followed by the second era: the Thirties and Eighties /29-39/ /79- 89/ , which is called the Father Decade (new paternalist depressive repressive goals as a reaction to the innovative period.
It is followed by the Mother Decade (materialistis instinctive breakthroughs,/39-52 Forties and 89-02 Nineties/
It is followed by a meltdown-like double decade the Sister Years in the Zeros and Tens and the 50/60-s turnvers of Centuries and Half Centuries – Demands and Schizoid mayhem are characteristic. (They are doube in length because the century and half centur turnover has a deeper effect psychologically. This system does not want to claim that there are no random events independently of cycle types always – these are background unconscious group progresses and archetypical feelings that can mainly be used in teaching history and can barely be discerned in the present periods by contemporaries.)
We are able to discover in this „Decadology” system why we can see that there are recurrent nostalgies for the Tewnties in the Seventies in fashion trends and wh it is similar in the Eighties for the Thirties and in the Nineties for the Forties or in the Zeros/tens – turn of the Centuries – for the 50/0s the Half Century turnovers. These nostalgies van be seen in the length of hair of men and in the length of the skirts of women or in hat types..
Let us see the main Turnover years.
In history there are Liberal and Illiberal Cycles with 25 years main cycles. (DeMAuse) /And there the doble cycle of 50 years and that is doubled in 100 years. The Liberal Half Century is the most liberal in the years of 89/90 : there are Liberal/Materialist Revolutions at the Turnover of the paternalist Father-Decades into materialist Mother Decades. This si the end of the Eigthies and the Nineties.
Let us see them: 1588/89, 1688-89, 1789 and 1889 and 1989/90
/The Victory over Spain by England – the Anti-Catholic Glorious Revolution in England, the French Revolution and the Hungarian Independent-Army demonstrations – plus our presently paternalistic but maternally started liberal Soviet meltdown almost 25 years ago.
And what has preceded them 50 years earlier? (Again there was a turnover from Father Decade into Mother decade on the turnover of the Thirties into the Forties
1539: Henry the 8th cedes from the Pope.
1639: They begin to chase away the English King (Charles I)
1739. Wesley founding the liberalistic Methodist Church.
1839 : Blanqui the Socialist rebel leader is incarcerated.
1939 : Germans occupy Poland /These are also „materialistic breakthroughs./
And we can see the Turnover of the schizoid Sister Decade and the innovative restaurative Brother Decades in the Tens generally having serious conflicts.
1618: the Protestant English-leaning King is chased away in Tshechia and the War of 30 Years starts.
1718: The Spanish War of Inheritance restarts (as Louis XV is underage)
1818 : Napohas been conquered and his General /Bernadotte/ inherits the Swedish throne.
1918: the ending of the First World War.
Similarly decisive turning points happen at the beginning of the second Fifty Years at the end of the Sixties, (Sister Years) and beginning of the Brother Decade, the Seventies.
1668, : Louis XIV attacking Spanish Netherlands
1768 : The main responsable of the diminishing of American british taxes – which will lead to the Boston tea Party – , Lord Grafton becomes Prime Minister while anti-King rebel, Wilkes is inprisoned and 7 of his followers are murdered at a demonstration.
1867 The Appeasement between Hungary and Austria
1968 : Soviet Russian invasion in Tshechia. President De Gaulle chased away by demonstrations.
So we may see in this syste, how in history there are Liberal and Illiberal Cycles and how they are achanging.
According to this Date List it is imaginable that there will be coming a Liberal Turnover in the Twenties again (with the recurring innovative Brother Decades of the 20s /and 70s/ always starting at the ending of the chatotic Sister Decades- beginning in the years 17/18 and 67/68 again and again.
There are 13 Spheres in Kabbalah – which are Generations, and in each one Moshe – the Saviour is in contact with the Pharao – like the Lubavitcher Rebbe and a contemporary King.)
The Kabbalistic Spheres are Generations/and they have Horoscope parallelism on a metaphore level/ :
(Long Face/The Patient One) /the 1300s years
(Inner image: Atik Yomin – Old of Days) /1400s century/
Keter/ Crown 15th century
…and Hochma-Bina-daat (Wisdom-Intellect-Knowledge) Father / Sagittarius, Capricorn/ and Mother /Libra, Pisces/
16th and 17th century
and then the 4 feelings:
Hessed-Gvura = Love and Strictness (Horoscope: Gemini and Leo))
Tiferet / Revovery/ 18th century
Hod and Necah Gratefulness (hod)like in yehodi=Jew) and Perseverance, Discipline
(Horoscope: Aries and Taurus)
down in middle: Jessod (base- sexuality) /Aquarius/
And the last one: Malkut = Ownership 19th century (In the horoscopes the parallels may be found here: Scorpion, Cancer, Virgo)
(These are the Spheres above, I will not translate this as it can be found on google easly…of course the psychological correspondance is important : Tiferet is translated as Recovery in this version.)
And they have Names (codes) of Family Members and Body Parts too.
a Ch-B-D Upper Three is Father and Mother
and the upper two: granfather and Great grandfather
the upper ones are Grandfather and Great Grandfather /Atik Yomin etc/
Then Tiferet is Brother and Malkut (Ownership) is Sister.
or: Brother/Son and Sister /Daughter
The 4 level: (and decades)
Mother/ Ear /Insight
One of Freud’s first patient was the Lubavicher Rebbe of his age (Shalom Dovber) so Freiud has learned the Kabbalah and its fantasy on partal and grandpartal influce on our desires (the Spheres)
. (We do inherit our ancestral hormones – this is “reincarnation” /gilgul/ in the Kabbalah.)
In the Zohar these Spheres are Gerations (Dor VaDor)
These are the Gerations (dor-va-dor) in kabbalah:(the Yovel Years a 50 years period in each ctury)
The first decade is the Brother (Son) – recovery, innovations in the 20s and 70s (from 017 and 067) in each century
30s and 80s Father (autoritarian-goal-setting and depressive reacting on the Innovation of the previous decade. Symbolized by the Eye
Then : The 40s and 90s – Mother (Manic- boderline) /Ear – intelligent insight/.
The Sister /schizoid/ decade: demands and new turns in the 50s and 60s (Back is the symbol) and Zeros and Tens – when schizoid meltdown is the leading pschology constellation
In each century and each decade we have a Constellation that is reviewed by the Davidic “mesianist” rabbi of that age – the Lubavitcher Rebbe and his ancestors) watching the Pharaon of the age: – the Habsburg-Bourbon-Windsor-Hohzollern-Romanoc family /also imagined as davidic descdants) who have aHungarian ancestress /Zápolya-Jagellon family./
All decades has its music – the Kings watch operas and the melodies are the same sometimes as in the Weekly Portion of the Bible/Torah which are read and sung by the Rebbeim.
So (as we inherit both the stressful Pharaonic constellations and Body Part Visions and the same of the Rabbis that have a Therapeutical/Recovery effect
we can (by closing our eyes and imagining the Breast or the Back)(Brother and Sister)(Demand and Fulfillmt) – and we may sooth the past stresses /on a hormone level/ of the 10s and 20s and the other decades.
So my blog is here in English About Kabbalah:
historicweeklymelody.wordpress com (EN)
but some articles can be seen under my pen name Geo Cosmos at http://www.sfsalvo.com
I am trying to create a psychological cycle theory of history using Weekly changing Biblical Melodies and their coincidences with Opera Tunes. It is based on hormonal inheritance of stress and stress-apeasing melodies (that can be dated with their ancestral settings: using Royal Assassinations and Messianist Kabbalist Rabbis visions of Body Parts coinciding in contemporary Operas and Biblical Weekly Portion Stories. In this fantasy we look at the Biblical Jubilee 50 years cycles and their four distinct duodecades (12 years) – each described as belonging to a psychologically dominant Family Member/Body Part (as it was used as a Code for interpreting the Bible by Kabbalists, the first psychologists using Collective Archetypes in the Freudian/Jungian mode.) Hence we get 4 different periods /1617-1629 as Sister/Back – hinting at Egocentric demands and lacks – then comes Father/Eye (longterm Goals of Altruism) from 1630-1641 and then Mother/Ear decade (instant Altruism) : 1642- 1654 and the last one is Brother (Son) /Chest(Breast decade 1655-1667 . /The same duodecades exist in each Century. My blog about it is here: https://historicweeklymelody.wordpress.com/
I am wondering if it would be possible to start a blog at your site about this? The basic claim is that each week we have a different DuoDecade impacting us (due to the Biblical Tunes sung by millions of religious people/Jews mostly/) and if we get conscious about teh ancestral stresses that are revived by the melodies we can become more balanced (because many collective hypnotic trances are “controlled” by un-known ancestral inherited hormon imbalances.)
It sounds like a parody of Yi Ching or Horoscopes but all the premises (the four cycles and the infantile projections /Family Members and Body Parts/ and the inherited hormones and music’s soothing effect – all are proven in some independent scientific research.
I am only doing this mixture of these theories because working as a Bible-reader Cantor I have “discovered” the non-religious melody coincidences and the possibility to date them.
War has four phases: /according to Lloyd deMause in 2000 and also to the Twenties Proust-Fans, the Szerb – Kecskeméti Manuscript Letters it has a 44-45 years cycle/
First: Innovative /Maternal sharing nurturing:Eye is the body part in Gnostic Solipsist folklore/
The collective fantasy wants to feel better, enjoy new innovations, but it also induces fright from well-being and success.
The Bad Boy must be punished.
Second / -Sister Years, Back in gnosticist fantasies-in the Proustian List where music invokes inherited Ancestral Stress memories) : Depressive – success is a neurotizing factor /Freud/ Cravings and not-enough feelings are proliferating.
Third: Maniac (Fatherly – Ear periods each 44 years)
Punishing movements /including anti-gay crusades to punish the craving Bad Boy/
Fourth:War, Tension,Assassinations – Brother or Son Years /minimal prices/
Let us see some excerpts from Lloyd deMaue:
The basic patterns of evolution of childhood have begun to be traced by myself and other psychohistorians. I would like to summarize the six childrearing modes that I have suggested are common to all groups that have traversed the full path of childhood and cultural evolution so far. These modes are, in fact, quite independent of technological development. But the overall evolutionary direction of parent-child relations is, I think, evident in the historical record, regardless of what labels one chooses to put on its stages. The earliest childrearing mode I have called infanticidal to highlight the constant presence of infanticidal wishes in the parent. Real infanticide is, of course, ubiquitous in most preliterate cultures, ranging about a third or more of all children born, and evidence remains of widespread infanticide among all historical records. By historical times, census figures from antiquity show boy/girl ratios as high as 400 boys to 100 girls–a believable figure since, as Poseidippos said, “even a rich man always exposes a daughter.” I have estimated that perhaps half of all children born in antiquity were killed by their caretakers, declining to about a third in medieval times and dropping to under one percent only by the eighteenth century. Since these skewed sex ratios do not vary by economic class–the rich do away with their children at about the same rates as the poor–the evidence suggests that the parents were coping with the emotional anxieties of childrearing more than economic conditions.
That incest is also traditional in the infanticidal mode is harder to prove conclusively, since what really happened in the family bed does not often leave historical traces. Yet all the records we have suggest that this was so. Man began, after all, as an incestuous primate–along with other primates, who remain incestuous today. In most simple societies today in such areas as New Guinea, boys and girls are used sexually by both their mothers and by the men, who gang rape girls and often are also pederasts who use the boys sexually, have boy-wives, or force all the boys to fellate them daily from age seven to fourteen “in order to ingest semen to counteract maternal pollution.”
By the time historical records begin, the widespread sexual use of children is well documented. The Greek and Roman child lived his or her earliest years in an atmosphere of sexual abuse. Girls were commonly raped, as reflected in the many comedies that have scenes that were considered funny of little girls being raped. Both Greek and Roman doctors report that female children rarely have hymens–just like the Indian and Chinese girls I described above. In order to find out if your young wife was really a virgin (girls usually married before puberty to older men), one had to use mystical tests for virginity, since intact hymens were so rare.
Boys, too, were regularly handed over by their parents to neighboring men to be raped. Plutarch has a long essay on what was the best kind of person a father should give his son to for buggering. The common notion that this occurred only at “adolescence” is quite mistaken. It began around age seven, continued for several years and ended by puberty, when the boy’s facial and pubic hairs began to appear. Child brothels, rent-a-boy services and sex slavery flourished in every city in antiquity. Children were so subject to sexual use by the men around them that schools were by law prohibited from staying open past sundown, so their pedagogues–slaves who were assigned to protect them against random sexual attack–could try to see that their teachers didn’t assault them. Petronius especially loved depicting adults feeling the “immature little tool” of boys, and Tiberius was said by Seutonius to have “taught children of the most tender years, whom he called his little fishes, to play between his legs while he was in his bath. Those which had not yet been weaned, but were strong and hearty, he set at fellatio…”
Since boys in antiquity shared the experience of being buggered, Christianity constructed its central myth of the Father sending his son down to be penetrated by a soldier’s lance in order to restage the common experience of fathers giving their boys to a neighbor to be sexually penetrated. Those who accepted the myth, accepted the penetration, and were promised the Father’s love and Mary’s tears in return. Although Christianity attempted to reduce the outright killing of newborns, thus moving beyond the infanticidal mode, it continued the abandonment of children–whether by child sale or by sending to wet nurse or monastery or nunnery or foster family or to other homes as servants–which is why I labeled this second stage the abandoning mode. The refusal of parents to raise their own legitimate children was so powerful that through the nineteenth century over half of the children born in Florence, for instance, were dumped into foundling homes at birth, to be picked up by their families–if they lived that long (the majority died)–when they were around five years old, thus avoiding having homes where crying babies disturbed the peace. The same abandonment was common in France, where, in 1900, over 90 percent of the babies born in Paris were carted out to the countryside to wetnurses at birth. As one author put it, “mother love” was a late historical achievement, not an instinctual trait.
Despite the advance that just abandoning rather than outright killing your children represents, most of the other childrearing practices of antiquity continued in the middle ages, with the buggering of boys–even in monasteries–continuing to be widespread and even accepted by society. By the time boys were in their teens, they were so addicted to violent sex that they sometimes formed adolescent raping gangs that grabbed and raped any girls or young women they could find unprotected, to such an extent that the majority of women in some cities would have been raped by these gangs at some time in their lives.
The erotic beating of children continued in Christian times, because of the anxieties of living with a child who is so full of your projections. Children were experienced as always about to turn into “changelings,” those who, as St. Augustine puts it, “suffer from a demon”–which usually meant just that they cry too much, since the Malleus Maleficarum says that one can recognize changelings because they “always howl most piteously,” and since Luther says they “are more obnoxious than ten children with their crapping, eating, and screaming.”
That children with devils in them had to be beaten goes without saying. A panoply of beating instruments existed for that purpose, from cat-o’-nine tails and whips to shovels, canes, iron rods, bundles of sticks, the discipline (a whip made of small chains), the goad (shaped like a cobbler’s knife, used to prick the child on the head or hands) and special school instruments like the flapper, which had a pear-shaped end and a round hole to raise blisters. The beatings described in the sources were almost always severe, involved bruising and bloodying of the body, began in infancy, were usually erotically tinged by being inflicted on bare parts of the body near the genitals and were a regular part of the child’s daily life. Century after century of battered children grew up to batter their own children in turn. Public protest was rare. Even humanists and teachers who had a reputation for gentleness approved of the severe beating of children. Those who attempted reform did so only to prevent death. As a thirteenth-century law said, “If one beats a child until it bleeds, then it will remember, but if one beats it to death, the law applies.” As Batholomew Batty put it, parents must “keep the golden mean,” which is to say they should not “strike and buffet their children about the face and head, and to lace upon them like malt sacks with cudgels, staves, fork or fire shovel,” for then they might die of the blows. The correct way, he said, was to “Hit him upon the sides…with the rod, he shall not die thereof.”
By the thirteenth century in the West, abandonment via oblation, or the giving of young children to monasteries for sexual and other uses, was ended, the first disapproval of pedophilia appeared, the first childrearing tracts were published and some advanced parents began to practice what I have termed the ambivalent mode of childrearing, where the child was not born completely evil, but was seen as being still full of enough dangerous projections so that the parent, whose task it was to mold it, must beat it into shape like clay. Church moralists for the first time began to warn against sexual molestation of children by parents, nurses and neighbors (the mothers had previously been instructed to masturbate their boys “so their yards will grow long”). The length of time of swaddling was eventually reduced from a year or more to only a few months. Pediatrics and educational philosophy were born. Parents of means began suggesting that perhaps rather than sending their infants out to be wetnursed in some peasant village–and thereby condemning over half of them to early death–the mother might herself nurse her infant. The baby, said some mothers who began to try nursing their own babies, even responds to this care by giving love back to the nursing mother, stroking her breast and face and cooing. And if the father, as often happened, complained that his wife’s breast belonged to him not the baby, these bold new mothers suggested that the father should be allowed to hold the baby too.
These childhood reforms immediately preceded and thereby produced the humanistic, religious and political revolutions we associate with early modern times. For the fifteenth and sixteenth centuries in Western Europe represent the great watershed of psychogenic change, wherein vastly improved childrearing allowed at least some of the schizoid and borderline personalities of antiquity and medieval times–who regularly heard voices and hallucinated visions–to move on to the more integrated, less splitting modern neurotic personality more familiar to recent times, thus achieving Melanie Klein’s “depressive position.” The sixteenth-century watershed in childrearing allowed people to reduce splitting and feel real depression for the first time, as can be seen in the popularity of Renaissance melancholy (Hamlet’s admirable depressive guilt), the ability of Protestants to end the good mother/bad mother splitting of Mary/Eve, and the ability to internalize the projective panoply of split Catholic saints/devils into Protestant depressive guilt. With this vast improvement in childrearing–in some families at least–the modern world could begin, with the development of science, technology and democratization now being possible in parts of the West.
By the seventeenth century, the intrusive mode of childrearing began, particularly in England, America and France, whereby the child was seen as less full of dangerous projections, so it could actually be unswaddled soon after birth, not given regular enemas (which had until then been given daily from birth to remove the bad contents felt to be inside the infant), toilet trained early rather than late, hit but not regularly whipped, and punished for masturbation rather than being masturbated by adults. It eventually became unacceptable for men to go about with a mistress on one arm and a catamite on the other, though underground seduction of minors continued. Intrusive parenting, in essence, began to substitute psychological pressure for physical abuse, so that rather than whipping the child to prevent it from sin, it was, for instance, shut up in the dark closets for hours or left without food, sometimes for days. One mother shut her three-year-old boy up in a drawer. Another had a house she described as “a sort of little Bastille, in every closet of which was to be found a culprit–some were sobbing and repeating verbs, others eating their bread and water…” Another five-year-old French boy, in looking at a new apartment with his mother, told her, “Oh no, mama…it’s impossible; there’s no dark closet! Where could you put me when I’m naughty.”
Although erotic whipping of children decreased gradually, the intrusive mode required nevertheless a steady pressure on the child to “break its will” and discipline it properly. This breaking of the will began early. John Wesley’s mother said of her babies, “When turned a year old (and some before), they were taught to fear the rod, and to cry softly.” One would never know, she claimed, that children were present in her house. Rousseau confirmed that in France babies in their earliest days were often beaten to keep them quiet. Another mother wrote of her first battle with her four-month-old infant, “I whipped him til he was actually black and blue, and until I could not whip him any more, and he never gave up one single inch.” One can sense in this description of baby battering the struggle with the mother’s own powerful parent, with the baby seen as so obstinate that it “won the battle” even after being beaten. In fact, this “double image” of the child as both a powerful adult and a wicked child accounts for the merging of beater and beaten in our myriad historical accounts of child abuse. Here, for instance, is an early American father describing the beating of his four-year-old boy for not being able to read something. The child is first tied up naked in the cellar. Then, the father writes,
With him in this condition, and myself, the wife of my bosom, and the lady of my family, all of us in distress, and with hearts sinking within us, I commenced using the rod…During this most unpleasant, self denying and disagreeable work, I…felt all the force of divine authority and express command that I ever felt in any case in all my life…But under the all controlling influence of such a degree of angry passion and obstinacy, as my son had manifested, no wonder he thought he “should beat me out,” feeble and tremulous as I was; and knowing as he did that it made me almost sick to whip him. At that he could neither pity me nor himself.
This picture of the merging of parent and child, with the father complaining that he is the one “beaten out” and in need of pity, is common for the intrusive mode. Similar confusion between parent and child can be seen in the severe punishments for masturbation championed by the child-training literature since Tissot. Prior to this, children were masturbated by adults and even licked on their bodies as though they were substitute breasts. For instance, Little Louis XIII, in 1603, was described by his pediatrician as having his penis and breasts kissed by everyone in the court, and his parents would regularly make him part of sexual intercourse in the royal bed. But childrearing reformers beginning in the eighteenth century began to try to bring this open sexual abuse under control, only it was the child who was now punished for touching his or her genitals, under threat of circumcision, clitoridectomy, infibulation and various cages and other genital restraint devices. These terrorizing warnings and surgical interventions only began to die out at the end of the nineteenth century, after two hundred years of brutal and totally unnecessary assault on children’s bodies and psyches for touching themselves. Despite the reformers’ efforts, progress was so uneven that one British journalist could write in 1924 that “cases of incest are terribly common in all classes. [Usually] the criminal…goes unpunished…Two men coming out from [an incest] trial were overheard saying to a woman who deplored there had been no conviction, ŒWhat nonsense! Men should not be punished for a thing like that. It doesn’t harm the child.’”
It goes without saying that the effects on the child of these physical and psychological punishments were immense. Adults remembered that as children they had had recurring nightmares and even outright hallucinations as they lay awake at night, terrorized by imaginary ghosts, demons, “a witch on the pillow,” “a large black dog under the bed,” or “a crooked finger crawling across the room.” History is filled with reports of children’s convulsive fits, dancing manias, loss of hearing and speech, loss of memory, hallucinations of devils and confessions of intercourse with devils. Nor did the parents help their children’s mental anguish by giving them comfort. It was thought that the way for children to get over their fears was to make them face fear even more concretely, so adults used to take children on visits to the gibbet to inspect rotting corpses hanging there, while being told moral stories. Classes used to be taken out of school to witness hangings, and parents would also sometimes take their children to hangings and then beat them when they returned home to make them remember what they had seen. Even humanists, like Mafio Vegio, who protested the severe beating of children, would admit that “to let them witness a public execution is sometimes not at all a bad thing.”
The effect on the children of this corpse-viewing was of course massive. One little girl, after her mother showed her the fresh corpse of her nine-year-old friend as an example, went around saying, “They will put daughter in the deep hole, and what will mother do?” Another woke at night screaming after seeing hangings, and “practiced hanging his own cat.” Religion was a further source of terrorizing. God was said to “hold you over the pit of hell, much as one holds a spider, or some loathsome insect, over the fire” and children’s books depicted Hell as follows: “The little child is in this red-hot oven. Hear how it screams to come out…It stamps its little feet on the floor…” Various terrorizing figures were used to control the child. If you were bad, the werewolf would gulp you down, Blue Beard would chop you up, Boney (Bonaparte) would eat your flesh, the black man or the chimney sweep would steal you away at night. This need to personify punitive figures was in fact so powerful that adults actually dressed up dummies to use in frightening children. As one English writer, in 1748, explained the practice:
The nurse takes a fancy to quiet the peevish child, and with this intent, dresses up an uncouth figure, makes it come in, and roar and scream at the child in ugly disagreeable notes, which grate upon the tender organs of the ear, and at the same time, by its gesture and near approach, makes as if it would swallow the infant up.
Another writer, in 1882, described how the nurse of a friend’s child wanted to leave for the evening while the parents were out, and so told the little girl that a
horrible Black Man…was hidden in the room to catch her the moment she left her bed…[Then] she made a huge figure of a black man with frightful staring eyes and an enormous mouth, and placed it at the foot of the bed where the little innocent child was fast asleep. As soon as the evening was over…[she] went back to her charge. Opening the door quietly, she beheld the little girl sitting up in her bed, staring in an agony of terror at the fearful monster before her, both hands convulsively grasping her fair hair. She was stone dead!
By the nineteenth century’s socializing mode, some parents no longer needed to terrorize, beat and sexually seduce their children, and more gentle psychological means began to be used to “socialize” the child. The socializing mode is still the main model of upbringing in Western nations, featuring the mother as trainer and the father as provider and protector, and the child is seen as slowly being made to conform to the parents’ model of goodness. Many of the abusive practices are reduced in the home but remain elsewhere in society. While Elizabeth I was sexually seduced as a girl by her caretakers and Louis XV had Madame du Barry procure little girls for the King to rape in his royal bedroom, by the nineteenth century parents would less often commit incest themselves but still sent their children to schools where they were erotically whipped on the bare buttocks and usually buggered by the older boys and masters. As John Addington Symonds reported his experience as a boy at public school:
Every boy of good looks had a female name, and was recognized either as a public prostitute or as some bigger fellow’s Œbitch.’ Bitch was the word in common usage to indicate a boy who yielded his person to a lover. The talk in the dormitories and the studies was incredibly obscene. Here and there one could not avoid seeing acts of onanism, mutual masturbation, or the sports of naked boys in bed together.
Reformers during the nineteenth century tried to bring the rest of society into the socializing mode by legislation designed to prevent outright battering and sexual abuse of children, which of course still went on in the majority of families around them. But those who tried to oppose buggering and beating boys in schools were opposed by parents who said “It didn’t hurt me.” Those who tried to pass child labor legislation to reduce horrendous working conditions and hours were labeled Communists. And those who thought one could bring up children kindly were considered impractical visionaries.
Even so, the decrease in parental seduction and beating during the intrusive mode produced an explosion of social innovation, allowing nations to produce the democratic and industrial revolutions of the modern period. As Hanns Sachs pointed out long ago in his paper “The Delay of the Machine Age,” when people in antiquity first invented the steam engine, they dared to use it only for children’s toys. It was only after fifteen centuries of childrearing evolution that steam could finally begin to be used by less fearful and more individuated adults to provide power for the benefit of mankind. As hellfire and physical discipline were replaced by other childrearing methods, it was the socializing psychoclass that built the modern world, with its democratic, innovative and class-dominated society.
What kind of society might be envisioned by children brought up under the latest childrearing mode–what I have termed the helping mode –whereby a minority of parents are now trying to help their children reach their own goals at each stage of life, rather than socializing them into adult goals–is yet to be seen. I suspect it will be far less class-centered and more empathic of others than is the socializing modern world with which we are familiar. That helping mode children grow up to be incapable of creating wars is also becoming evident from watching the anti-war activities of my children and those of their friends who have been brought up by other helping mode parents. For war is only understandable as a sacrificial ritual in which young men are sent by their parents to be hurt and killed as representatives of the independence-seeking parts of themselves. Psychohistorians have regularly found that images on the magazine covers and in political cartoons in the months prior to wars reveal fears of the nation becoming “too soft” and vulnerable, with images of dangerous women threatening to engulf and hurt people. These regressed group-fantasies eventually produce so much anxiety that a sacrifice of innocent victims is deemed necessary, and another nation who also needs a sacrifice is located. So regular are these group-fantasies in the media that I was able to forecast, for instance, the recent Persian Gulf War months before Iraq invaded Kuwait by locating in the American media an upsurge in imagery of devouring mommies and guilty children needing punishment.
hat periodic sacrifices are in fact lawful is suggested by the regularity with which they occur, nearly every state producing a major war on the average of about every 25 years throughout the past two millennia. In between wars, periodic economic sacrifices serve to relieve our guilt for too much prosperity and to cleanse us of our dangerous economic and social progress. Depth psychology has shown that in individuals progress toward individuation and success often produces regression, including both fears of leaving mommy and wishes for maternal re-engulfment, along with fears of losing one’s self. In nations, the same thing occurs after periods of rapid change and prosperity, and is defended against by the sacrificial ritual called war.
THE TASK OF THE FUTURE
That all social violence–whether by war, revolution or economic exploitation–is ultimately a consequence of child abuse should not surprise us. The propensity to reinflict childhood traumas upon others in socially-approved violence is actually far more able to explain and predict the actual outbreak of wars than the usual economic motivations, and we are likely to continue to undergo our periodic sacrificial rituals of war if the infliction of childhood trauma continues. Clear evidence has been published in The Journal of Psychohistory that the more traumatic one’s childhood, the more one is likely to be in favor of military solutions to social problems. Technologically, the human race is now quite able to satisfy its needs–if we can live together without violence. But unless we now employ our social resources toward consciously assisting the evolution of childrearing, we will be doomed to the periodic destruction of our resources, both material and human. To Selma Freiberg’s dicta that “Trauma demands repetition” I would only add “repetition in social behavior.” We cannot be content to only continue to do endless repair work on damaged adults, with more jails and police and therapists and political movements. Our task now must be to create an entirely new profession of “child helpers” who can reach out to every new child born on earth and help its parents give it love and independence.
Such a parent outreach movement is already under way in a few cities, and special issues of The Journal of Psychohistory have been published to document its operation. A special issue on “Changing Childhood” is the most recent to be published, showing the success of parent outreach projects in several states. The success of parenting centers such as the one pioneered in Boulder, Colorado, for instance, has been astonishing. Through parenting classes and home visiting by paraprofessionals, they have measurably reduced child abuse, as shown by careful followup studies and by reduced police reports and hospital entrance rates. All this has been accomplished with very small monetary outlays, since these parent outreach centers operate mainly with volunteer labor, while it has the potential to save trillions of dollars annually in the costs of social violence, police enforcement, jails and other consequences of the widespread child abuse of today.
Such a parent support movement would resemble the universal education movement of over a century ago. People then objected to providing universal education, by saying, “Well, yes, perhaps free education is useful for all children–but that would require hiring millions of teachers. How can we afford it?” We, too, admit that we will eventually need millions of parent helpers to teach parents how to bring up children and produce non-violent adults. But the teaching of parenting is just the unfinished half–the most important half–of the free education movement of the past, with its goal the empowerment of children to realize their innate capacities for love and work.
Changing childhood is a communal task. And it works. In 1979, Sweden passed a law saying that hitting children was as unlawful as hitting adults! Imagine the audacity! Children were people, just like adults! Parents who hit their children weren’t put into jail–that would just deprive the children of their caretakers. But the parents were taught how to bring up children without hitting them. And at the same time, high school students were taught how to bring up children without violence. By now, 20 years later, these high school students have their own children, and…surprise! They don’t hit them! To those who object to the cost of communities helping all parents, we can only reply: Can we afford not to teach parenting? What more important task can we devote our resources to? Do we really want to have massive armies and jails and emotionally crippled adults forever? Must each generation continue to torture and neglect its children so they repeat the violence and economic exploitation of previous generations? Why not achieve meaningful political and social revolution by first achieving a parenting revolution? If war, social violence, class domination and economic destruction of wealth are really revenge rituals for childhood trauma, how else can we remove the source of these rituals? How else end child abuse and neglect? How else increase the real wealth of nations, our next generation? How else achieve a world of love and laughter of which we are truly capable?
It appears we have our work cut out for us.
Information about the annual National Parenting Conference can be obtained by writing Robert McFarland, M.D., 2300 Kalmia, Boulder, CO 80304.
Lloyd deMause is Director of The Institute for Psychohistory, Editor of The Journal of Psychohistory and President of The International Psychohistorical Association and can be reached at 140 Riverside Drive, New York, New York 10024. He is author of The History of Childhood, Foundations of Psychohistory,and Reagan’s America.
This article is based upon extensive primary source material fully referenced in the over 600 footnotes contained in the following sources:
1. Lloyd deMause, “The Evolution of Childhood.” in his Foundations of Psychohistory. New York: Creative Roots, 1982.
2. _____________ “On Writing Childhood History.” The Journal of Psychohistory 16 (1988): 135-171.
3. _____________”The History of Child Assault.” The Journal of Psychohistory 18(1990): 1-29.
4. _____________”The Universality of Incest.” The Journal of Psychohistory 19 (1991):123-164.